Advice dating love online widowhood
That is a massive thing to come to terms with and I’m not saying I’m happy with it, just that I can admit that that’s the way it is. This situation is one that doesn’t have a rule book and although I have a few friends in the same position – widowed and ready to date again – it’s a total minefield of guilt, fun, new ground, feeling judged and the biggest one of all, childcare problems!I’ve said a few things about it on social media and yes, I’ve found I am judged by it.The number of unsolicited messages I’ve had from men I can’t tell you – and I certainly can’t tell you the content of some! Or that I’m advertising the fact and look like a target for weirdos?I’m sure this like everything in life is a phase, but it’s a tough part of losing someone you love, losing your future, that I think I just have to work through before I start to feel better.
In the meantime, any practical or constructive advice you may have on this subject, please do let me hear it.
I put myself out there and I can’t take it away now – and nor do I want to.